Can Debt Collectors Contact Your Family?
Debt collectors may contact family members only in limited circumstances, such as to obtain your contact details, and they should not disclose your debt to them or harass them. Disclosing your debt to family, friends or employers is generally not acceptable. If this happens, keep records and lodge a complaint with the relevant regulator.
Key Points
- Collectors should not disclose your debt to family.
- Contact with family is limited to locating you.
- Harassment of family members is unacceptable.
- Keep records and complain about misconduct.
This article provides general consumer information and is not legal advice. Individual circumstances differ. If legal proceedings have already started, obtain advice relevant to your specific circumstances.
When contact with family is permitted
A collector may contact a family member only to obtain your contact details if they cannot reach you — for example, to confirm a phone number or address. They should not discuss the debt or the amount owed with that family member.
Repeated or harassing contact with family members is not permitted and can be reported.
What is not acceptable
Disclosing the existence or details of your debt to family members, friends, colleagues or employers is generally not acceptable. Threatening your family or using them to pressure you is also not permitted. Collectors must conduct themselves within the rules governing their profession.
If a collector has overstepped, you and your family have the right to complain.
How to respond
Ask family members to record the date, time and content of any contact from a collector. Instruct them not to discuss any debt and to ask the collector to contact you directly in writing. If you are under debt review, family members can refer the collector to your debt counsellor.
Lodge a complaint with the relevant regulator if the conduct is harassing or involves improper disclosure.
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Reviewed by Carolina Guevara Harris
Registered Debt Counsellor · NCRDC3152
Last updated: 17 September 2025
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